Will my PITIFUL existence ever end?
I’m less than a week from becoming 25. I live with my parents. I have no car. I live a good 4 miles from ANYTHING. I earn a B average at an online school, but for what good? I don’t have any money. I’ve un-knowingly passed up relationships for 10 years ( my last girlfriend was about 10 years ago ). I’ve tried everything to leave this place ( my parent’s home ), but am now so frustrated that I don’t even want to live anymore. I see no purpose to my continued existence, but I’ve thought about ending it before and ended up in a state asylum; I was structured there. It kills me that I must accept taking money from the government; I feel like a drain on the economy. I’m so very bored with life. I want this movie to end but it seems like I am being laughed at by my creator; it will never be over.
You’re an idiot.
Get off ur ass and live your life the way you want to. There’s no creator that controls you, ur in full control of ur life.
You’re just a lazy guy.
Tell us how you really feel!
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try wellbutrin
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Why are you doing that to yourself..
Life sucks…
but life sucks balls…when you make it suck that bad
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With a B average you can go to college and do something more constructive with your life.
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You’re an idiot.
Get off ur ass and live your life the way you want to. There’s no creator that controls you, ur in full control of ur life.
You’re just a lazy guy.
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you are going to school why?
duh, a job!
job = money!
money=freedom
just stay with your parents, be grateful you have them
and stop being so damn twitchy around girls(i know you are!)
after taht show up to the tart of your new career in you old clunker
and eventualy get a decent car, wife, and children, and maybe
if your good
pizza!
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I felt the same at one time. Please, feel free to contact me. It doesn’t have a lot to do with religion, just with yourself.
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You sound like me a few years ago. I had failed out of the first college I attended, I was in a job I hated, living at home, no girlfriend, etc etc. Today, I’m an attorney, married with a child. Things can turn around, but you’re the only one who can make it happen. If you just wait for thing to get better, they won’t. But quitting never helps fix anything.
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If this is your "movie", I suggest that you "roll the credits"!
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1. Get off your ass and get a job. that will start you off well.
2. Get outside more, hang out with some friends, call people, go to a club, go to a major city.
3. Go look for another relationship.
4. Find a Section 8 Apartment complex and move out for less than 400$ a month.
5. Last but not least, suck up your pride and find a dead-end job, it gets you out of the house and adds some credentials to your life.
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6. Stop asking for a damn pity party. At least YOU have a family that is willing to take care of your sorry ass. Think of others, like oh say for example myself, who’s parents had abandoned them for 16 years, never bothered to make contact with him, and seperate him from his brothers.
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7. You remind me so much of my 23 year old brother.
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GET OFF YOUR LAZY ASS YOU SORRY SACK OF SHIT.
Also, although im an Atheist, I would suggest you go to a local church for support. Who knows, maybe you will get some of the help there that I could never recieve.
Want to do something that costs no money. I am serious please don’t laugh I have been thinking of it myself. Join the Amish community they will take you in. You will be married in no time,have an awesome house that you built have a farm and a buggy and not worry what the rest of the world thinks. You can still see your parents and your family. I am just saying it would be an awesome experience. You would be an important aspect to their community.
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If there’s one thing you can be certain of, it’s that it will end someday. So what’s your rush?
This may not be so much a case of what you’re doing now as what you want to be doing.
Ask yourself: What is it you really want to be doing? Forget about what anybody else thinks you should be doing. What do you want to do?
Next, start thinking about how to make that a possibility. It may be out of reach right now, but the worst thing you can do is stop dreaming.
Please hang in there.
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Well the first thing I would say is go out and get a job. Even if it is a crappy job that you feel is below you, at least you would be making your own money. Then after that you need to finish up your degree and get a better paying job so you can totally support yourself.
As for your living arrangements, once you have that crappy job, see if anyone wants a roommate or a room to rent and get out on your own.
You do these things, it’ll get better. Its going to be tough, but anything is better then ending your life.
Just as a side note, since you are in the R&S section, don’t get pulled into a religion just because you think it will be a cure all to your depression, it won’t.
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Job lamented about his pitiful existence also. Pray, read a bible.
You need a change but you are the only one that can do it for yourself.
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Well its rather simple.
Quit pitying yourself, quit being lazy and make something of yourself.
Unless you a starving in a third world country constantly afraid of being killed, raped or beaten. Worried that today will be the last day that you see your friends and family.
your life is good, ending it would be cowardly and the p*ssies way out.
Your a greedy, self centered, lazy A$$ that thinks the world should cater to his every needs.
go out there and make something of yourself and get of YA
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i’ve been there..exactly where you are at..exactly.
i could be writing that myself many years ago…only I was 29!!!
nothing is easy…start out with simple goals..
like..getting a job! the rest will follow. Dances are a great way to meet women. Churches, AA clubs..NA clubs..you need to find people who can relate to you! That is important!
now i’m married, had a good job <laid off in the crisis> have 2 paid for houses <one a rental> and two paid for cars…wife earns an executive salary because i/she put her self through college.
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this person has isolated himself…tough love is not the answer here..
It will end, and there will be nothing more after ward, you must reach out and find something you enjoy. Re-invent yourself – your life, you have the power to live a good life. Watch the film office space, it will uplift you. Get into doing something, something that gets you outdoors, kayaking and biking saved me from depression, I joined a kayaking club and it was great.
I too am 25 and have felt the same as you and sometimes still do, you know your most like to suffer from mental illness when your in your 20s but you can do something about it. Go live life cos its the only one you will ever have.
Peace
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No, your creator is not laughing at you. He knows your feelings and sees your problem, and I think he has a solution. Tell him that you give your whole life to him and ask him to lead you, step by step. He may have things to tell you, but don’t hesitate for a moment to follow his leading.
Maybe you could start reading the Bible, here is a link I found Interesting. It may open up new perspectives and that may change your life.
http://www.vop.com/article.php?id=361
You may think this to be just foolish talk, but I speak from experience. I remember when I was your age how everything seemed hopeless and without meaning. But my life continued, step by step, and today, looking back, I can just thank my creator, He can do much more than we ever can imagine.
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